Gulf Shores's Local Dating Service

i am a normal person who likes to have fun! I like all sorts of things computers, cars, video games, programing, stereo's, etc.... I am a tall, italian, dark haired, dark skined person who enjoys a good time. I also like haveing my free time away from people, sounds, interuptions to my thoughts. I am about to move into a pink house lol but the cool thing is that its a 4 bedroom 4.5 bath threee story house. I can over look the outside of things if the inside is up to par. granit counter tops oak cabnits awsome kitchen and living room. It goes to show don't judge someone by first impressions you may give up a good thing for something worse because you didn't like the first thought. I have always told myself "I can do better" which is a good way to look at life. If you are able to critisize yourself you can take someone elses. If you always give things your best you will always come out ahead of the game. If there is anything i left out you are more than welcome to write me to find out more.

I am not good at writing about myself so here we go. I am honest, hard working, play hard, loveable, and like the outdoors. My job takes most of my time right now so there is no time to meet new people. I find my self single once again and I find the dating thing hard to get back into. I have 2 children that live in Memphis Tn they are grown and I never see them. My passions are a well tuned rifle and a good woman.

I enjoy relaxing around the house on my days off. I like to write and be artistic. I watch movies alot. I just recently got out of a 7 year relationship. So over it, no going back. I am close to my family. I am very independent. I enjoy cuddling and romantic stuff. I'd so much rather have an intimate night watching movies in my huge bed than go out.I just moved to the Gulf Shores, AL area. I live with my best friend Stacy... it's a guy. I get asked all the time. He moved here about 4-5 years ago and never came home. people here are so much more laid back than at home. I'm really shy at first when you first meet me but once I get comfortable, LOOK OUT! My friends and everyone I've met so far thinks I'm super funny and fun to be around. I'll let you be the judge of that.

Single middle aged, educated and financially secured professional man with no extra bags. Looking for a woman with average qualities and positive attitude. Not interested in exceptional, impossible, and impractical life styles

I live 2 laugh an love being surrounded by positive artistic people! I have tasteful fun tattoos, and love men who have them as well.Plain an simple I'm a dork...love a man who can admit that.I Moved 2 the beach a little over a year ago 2 see where life takes me next, so far it's been a very interesting ride.

I try to be a very honest person, sometimes people don't like that though.. maybe my sarcasm doesn't help. Anyways if you are an intelligent person and like to be spontaneous than I'm definitely down for a fun time and good conversation.

I want someone fun, stable, and ready to be able to give me time.
If something is meant to be than it will happen, doesn't mean I'm not open minded to a future with someone. My Love is one of a kind, and In love, I am very generous - with gifts, time, and guidance.

I love,my son,my friends,family,boating and swimming,to be in love,to be,earrings,weddings and babies,going to the movies,sleeping in,uno,laughing really hard,mani's and pedi's ,fruity drinks
the smell of clean laundry,dressing up,bon fires,roasting marshmellows,bubble baths,going on dates,smiling,and grilling out,relaxing on my couch,trying new,restaurants,buying new clothes,jamming out to music and singing in my car,playing board games,steaks and baked potatoes,thunder storms,fall weather,birthdays,and christmas,taking pictures,decorating,my phone,money,mini vacays,picnic sandwiches,laughing at my friends,and goofing off,feeling important,cooking,my life,and many more things.

I'm easy going:) I love to read alot, cook, and walking. I'm an Army brat so I love to travel and see different places. I love history. I'm pretty honest so if have a question then you just have to ask.

I could sit all day in a crowded room and not say a word..but leave me by myself I go insane. I have always had an intense attraction to women however Ive only had relationships with men. I would love to have the confidence with women like I have with men.
Im quite shy at first, but once I figure out how laid back the people around me are I let lose. I spent most of my teen years living with my father and brother so I have a rather rauncy sense of humor.

Hi there, I am a hard working Corporate Chef. I recently relocated Gulf Shores to open a new restaurant in Orange Beach... My future holds bright as I plan to move up in my company and eventually open my own Restaurant. I had a wonderful wife but she decided to leave me sooo I unfortunatly have one divorce under my belt. As a chef I work long hours, nights, and weekends excluding Sundays usually. I'm looking for someone who can understand my demanding schedule is a necessary part of my life. Don't get me wrong I still have plenty of time for fun and relaxation. I would love to make some new friends and hopefully a lasting relationship with a caring woman. Life is changing always and I just want to make the best out of it for as long as possible. Thanks for reading.

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Hey I am Kalani I went to high school in Fairhope but moved to GA. Now I am back home at the beach and I love it. I am a laid back guy, and easy to get along with. I love the outdoors, and want to travel the world.

Hello, My name is mike I just moved to gulf shores from Ohio For work. I dont know many people here but would love to meet some new friends maybe more. Im a very friend guy and get along with anyone.

I am currently married, but in the process of getting a divorce. I found someone on here (<<Improvisar>>) that I will officially be dating once the paperwork is officially filed. I am still open to finding friends on here, but friends is all it can be. As an additional note: I am _not_ looking for casual sex encounters, nor I am interested in being a "friend with benefits". If this is what you are looking for, please do us both a favor and move on to another profile.

In my friends, I look for people who are not judgmental. I am not judgmental, so I expect the same.

Lest anyone try to say they have been misled...I gained weight after something traumatic. I just wanted to be invisible and not wanted by anyone. I felt that would "protect" me. I was wrong. It made me miserable. I am losing now and all I ask is that I be accepted as I am. I am a work in progress, but at least I am progressing!

I have 3 quotes/sayings that are my mottoes right now:

And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. --Anaïs Nin

Everything for a reason.

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...It's about learning to dance in the rain.

I love to sing and walk in the rain. When I am hurting or upset I want to be near the water, it makes me feel better. Because I am so pale, the sun and I don't really get along so well, so I like to do a lot of stuff at night. Yes, I know...that is what sunscreen is for! I will use sunscreen ...well high SPF block...when necessary. I really do prefer the beach and such at night though, it has a much more peaceful feeling to me.

I love animals and children. My hot topic issues would have to be abuse (child, domestic, sexual, mental, etc...all forms), rape, intolerance.

I hate clothes shopping but love kitchen stores and computer/electronics stores. I have greatly varied interests. I love to snuggle and cuddle. I am very touchy-feely. I like to spoil people I care about, even if it's only small gestures like a note on their pillow or in a pocket.

Religion is kinda odd for me at this point in my life. I believe in God. I was raised southern baptist. I haven't found a church locally I feel comfortable in.

I'm a man of my word, first and foremost. I see no reason to ever beat around the bush about anything. If something needs to be said, good or bad, it will get said. Now, that's not to say I'm not sensitive. I have quite a bit of tact when it comes to saying the bad things. I don't like to hurt peoples feelings, and will do whatever I can to avoid it. I'm happy with myself and need someone who can keep up. I need someone with a well rounded intellect, and a great vocabulary wouldn't hurt the situation:). I believe whole heartedly that life is what you make it. What you can create, you can achieve. You are in control of your destiny. If you want it, manifest it. The law of attraction is a crazy thing. I'm here to live life, to be infectiously happy, and to find love.

I live in Alaska from May to September because it is one of the most incredible places on Earth. I'm drawn to the raw untouched characteristics of the landscape that are absolutely timeless. I spend winters in various places that are typically in the lower 48 states. This winter I'm in Orange Beach, Alabama!

I love to get out and explore a new place and see it through the eyes of a local. This means sitting in a diner and eating local food, hearing local conversation, and experiencing life as it happens. I like to walk and drive. I'm not much of a skier, biker, or runner. I go to the gym because it's good for my body. I like to sit and read books and have rich conversation with people because it's good for my soul.

I am a big guy. I'm 6'0 and 300lbs, but have a more muscular build than fat. I beleive that i'm in very good shape.

I'm in Orange Beach, been back here from Destin since feb 09'. Getting a divorce but it's drama free, uncontested, we both want it, and we havent been together since may of '08, so there's no back and fourth, we are separated. I'm very open minded. I'm a driven person, been an electrician for 8 years, with the union in pensacola now but am licensed with the state also and enjoy my work but am capable of much more so i'm going back to school. Love the beach, surfing, and outdoors in general but love to relax and kick back all the same with a movie or tv. I workout but can't gain the weight i want! I'm stuck at around 170 it seems so i just stay toned & cut but its all good. I love all music, mainly r&b, rock, dance, and soul but not limited to. you can get me also at hybridhiphop on myspce & yahoo. i'm a very laid back person and don't enjoy drama and mind games, so no thanks if thats an interest. I havent got to travel outside the US yet but would love to, lived in Atlanta for 5 years and like diversity & culture. I'm intelligent & well mannered but a stand up guy and not afraid to make it known. As interesting as traveling abroad is to me, i'm content in staying in one location if I have the right person to share it with, somone who will complement me and that I can do the same for, but if it happens, it happens, if it don't, it don't, no worries & things will be alright regardless :)

I work full-time, mother three adorably impish little boys and dream of the day that I will have the house clean, refrigerator stocked and a day off to do absolutely nothing!

I signed up on this site after my children's father and I separated. But now, I find myself not in a relationship but curiously unavailable. I am committed to my family, and they deserve absolutely everything I have right now.

I have met some wildly funny and insanely interesting people on this site... please feel free to continue e-mailing if you are interested in continuing the conversation knowing that a date or relationship is nowhere in the near future.

Hi everyone. My name is Carla.

I've been accused of being a "Leo." I maintain that it's not my fault; I was born that way. On the other hand: if the shoe fits, wear it.
I'm loyal and generous, sometimes to a fault. I try to be as honest as possible while retaining an appropriate level of tact and decorum. I love plans, especially the ones that work. Being in charge is fun, but I do enjoy a break once in awhile. I *love* solving problems, playing, thinking, creating, and lots of other things.

I'm a very physical person. My relationship with sports is a bit hit and miss, and most plants seem intent on killing my with their pollen, but I do like being outside. I always loved volleyball and wrestling. I'm willing to participate in most activities as long as they're "games." That is, I don't neccessarily take winning or losing very seriously.

On the romantic side, that means that I need touch. This includes hand holding, hugging, kisses, petting, massages, cuddling, and grooming - ie. playing with peoples' hair. I've been known to suprise my partners with flowers, poetry, and totally inappropriate picture messages via cell phone.

That box on the right of your screen is correct when it says that I like children. Someday, I want to be a parent. I love children and get along well them. If you have children, I consider them part of the package. Children aren't neccessary if you just want someone to hang out with though. ;)

I love to be outdoors, I love to fish and just to be on the water. I love to cook and have a night in with a movie! Im usually up for just about anything! I have goals and thoughts of where i would like to be in 5 years, if your not looking ahead your living in the past!

I am an easy going, funny, intellegent person who enjoys anything and everything Alabama college football, im going there in the fall, i like fishing, paintball, wakeboarding,( im an adrenaline junkie) i LOVE tattoos, piercings are cool but i would never get one myself, 420.., i work out all the time, im at the gym 5 days a week.. im fun to be around, i love going to parties i get crazy but not arrested

I am a short but spunky girl with a little one. She is my life but needs someone else to give her all the love she deserves. I have known I was bisexual since the 8th grade and love every minute of it because I finally know why everything was always weird when other girls were around.

If there is anything else you want to know just send me a message and I will answer any questions you have.

I am 20. I live in foley. I work at the pizza hut in foley. I lost my mom and dad in 2004. I don't get out much as i like to.

Happy with my life & happy with who I am! Not looking for fake dreams, fake hope or fake emotions. Seeking real, honest woman that wants to be herself, wants to be appreciated and wants to be treated with respect! I have no baggage from my past and no unrealistic expectations about tomorrow. Just desire to be happy and to share laughter and love with the right woman. No time for games or drama! Had enough to last a lifetime! I am care about the simple things in life! I love smiles and laughter! Quiet times! Being at peace with where and who I am. I seek to fall in love. have romance in my life. To do the little things! EVERYDAY...

Hi everyone, my name is Kristy. Im new to the on like dating, just thought I would give it a try. Well I have lived in Alabama for about 12 years. I am part Vietnamese most my family live here some still live in Viet Khong. I am real easy going my favorite thing to do is laugh it keeps you young. I'm alot of fun and easy going. I come from a small family of four.I'm on here looking for a guy that I can get to know and maybe start a relationship I have problems trusting men I'v had some crazy ones like the ones your looking out the rear view mirror to see if there following you and always making sure you doors are locked at night. I need a real man thats ready for a relationship no lies and no drama.

I was born in Selma, Al., join the navy after high school and worked aboard the USS Independence launching and recovering aircraft. I got out of the service in 84 and moved back to Selma and worked the family business. Married and had 4 children. Moved the family to Dallas Tx. in 92. got divorced in 2001. I raised kids untill they were grown (youngest is 19). Kids are on there own, so I decided to move to the gulf. So here I am!!!

Born and raised in the south, just off the gulf coast. working in ny. area til 2/28. Looking to start a relationship that could lead to long term then possible marriage. Looking for honest, dependable, soulmate, companion, friend, and possible lover. Widowed after 32 yrs. of marriage, with 2 grown children.

First and foremost, if u dont support our troops, do not contact me.
I do not like to shop...i would rather be outdoors doing just about anything...love animals and life in general

I am 23 three years old and a junior at the University of South Alabama in Mobile. I play in an alternative/country band, and am a wrestling coach at a local mma camp. I am about 5'11" and weigh about 210 lbs. I have short brown hair and teal eyes. i am majoring in social science and secondary education. In my free time i like to surf and play guitar. I love going to concerts and traveling. My favorite bands are Dave Matthews Band, Marc Broussard, Needtobreathe, and other alternative/blues/country band.s

I JUST WANT TO MEET PEOPLE FOR SOME NSA SEX THATS IT MAYBE HANG OUT BUT THATS ABOUT IT

Hey ok so i love going to the movies and long walks on the beach. Trying new things are always fun for me. I have an amazing job and i know what i wont in life. I like a guy who likes to go out and have fun but also likes to just stay in sometimes and chill.

I'm not here to find any-one. I am in a relationship that I am happy with. I joined for the quizzes and just see who's on here. So, hit me up!

I have been a widow for 2years. I was married for almost 35 years and new at dating after all this time. I have a grown son in Vegas and a Mom who lives near. I have lived in this area for about 2 1/2 years and love it here. I am a midwest girl born and raised. I have some college and worked retail all my life so you know I know how to get along with people. I love all kinds of music, love to dance but haven't in years, like to fish and camp. I am although a fair weather fisherman and camping has to be with a shower and a bed to sleep on. I used to love to cook, I eat out alot now. I do love animals, have 5 cats and a doxie (dog)named Fritz. Love to travel, history espically ancient history, also enjoy reading thrillers and mysteries, do alot of crafing too.
I am retired, don't play games, do like cards though. I do enjoy happy hour one day a week and never smoked or did any drugs and still is not my kind of thing to do. I have a loving personality, care about people and my friends and had a good marriage.I do miss having someone to care about and care about me but not necessarily looking to remarry, don't have to. Just looking for someone to have fun with.

hola everyone! my names bob and i'm glad you stoped by! let's see what to put what to put.. i've spent the past 4 almost 5 years in the AirForce where i'm responsable for takeing care of my jet ( a KC-135R if your interested) i love takeing my motercycle out on a nice day and cruseing pcola. if i'm not on the bike, hanging out with friends ( i'm the life of the party :P) or watching a movie i'm probally chilling out playing with my military friends over x-box live

Well, I don't really know what to say so if you want to know anything about me just ask. I'm not shy about answering any question may it be normal, odd, or sexual just throw it out there and I'll answer it.

I'm just on here to find a cool chick to hang out with on my free time and see where it goes from there. I haven't had any luck (meeting someone) around this town since moving back. I'm pretty outgoing unless put in awkward situations. You will either love or hate my sense of humor. If you're into underground genres of music (punk, indie, metal) you're one up for sure! Hit me up.

I think a lot; I want a meaningful relationship more than anything. I love my computer, and when people fail me, it's where I go. Some people call me odd, some people say I'm depressed or emo or a freak. But really, I just dislike talking to people I don't know, and after a while, you'll see some of my wit shine. And some people call me Maurice.

From My Facebook Profile:
I'm a Geek ;p
I'm shy, but also bipolar and agressive
I'm extremely odd until you really know me
I like Gaming
Cisco Networking Academy.

Dont really have alot to say here. If you have a question I am an open book just ask

Okay so my descriptions of myself are not the best on here but they are completely me. I am almost 5 foot 4 with blonde hair and hazel eyes. I love animals, books, sleep, and pretty much anything that has to do with being outdoors. I have 6 dogs, all but one are bully breed, two cats and usually a wild animal or two for observation. I have a vary eclectic, and sometimes a bit eccenric, taste in music. I love old western movies and like action and scary movies (scary not nasty or stupid).

I am a person who values his friends and family. I am loyal to all of them and am considered somewhat protective.

I'm pretty much an introvert and a quiet person except among those who know me. I'm a pretty big nerd. I love playing video games and watching anime. I also love science fiction books.

Let's try this as a free association: "I'm..."
1. "free to do what I want, any old time..."
2. changing but remain the same.
3. "deep" and can wax poetic at times.
4. easily entertained.
5. laid back with streaks of melancholy.
6. "losing my religion..."
7. a listener. When you speak, you can't hear.
8. a big fan of The Who.
9. bearded. Very bearded.
10. political. But not mean or aggressive about it.
11. sleepless. I lay down and then I start thinking and thinking.
12. a movie fan. I'll watch just about anything.
13. superstitous. Which is one of my idiosyncrasies.
14. a terrible speller. My insistenent use of big word is no help.
15. a writer. Who never writes, because I want to get it right.

Well i'm 20 years old and a United States Marine stationed in Pensacola Fl. According to every-one i hang out with i'm a very nice person to be around, Idk i hate writing about my self because i never know what to say lol. I'm shy at first, but once i start talking to someone i open up. All i have is my family and their not down here with me so i'm on my own. I have my 2 dogs back home also, and love horses lol. Idk i guess i'm sick of going off and doing the same thing every single day. i want a change want some new friends and possibly someone more than that. I'm looking for someone whos loves the nightlife like myself, like going to clubs, stay out late on the weekends, and if you like going tot he street races, an dlove the city thats a massive plus.

Well, first off, i must say that i am a man in uniform. I joined the Navy because i want to see the world while im still young because we all know, the older you get, the more you're stuck doing the things you hate. I also joined because i like the discipline and professionalism that the service puts into you and how all the training can land you a good job when you get out. I want to get a degree in Aeronautical Engineering. You know, we all gotta make the dough somehow! :) Aviation is something that has always had my heart. I like to be active and keep my body healthy on my spare time. Though, i don't necessarily eat the right foods all the time- gotta work on that. I go to the gym 4 times a week and run when im not at the gym. You have to mix it up :) I am very athletic as you can see. I use to play football, baseball, and also ran track in high school. Apart from being athletic, i can also be a geek. I like to play some video games( just like any other guy) when im in the mood. Some of my favorite movies are Saving Private Ryan, Hot Rod, Pineapple Express, The Hangover, and Top Gun. I like pretty much any kind of music like Jimmy Eat World, Bob Marley, The Offspring, The Beatles, 311, Disturbed...the list goes on and on. If there is anything you want to know or if you just want to get to know me more, feel free to message me :)

i am a 18 year old male currently stationed in Pensacola Florida,I graduated from Marine Corps boot camp october2nd 2009. i love to stay fit and love a woman who like to go out and enjoy life !

sometime i like to write short poam and story i also like to be outdoors fishing, swimming, hunting, paintball, sometime i like to play sports and xbox360

i also like someone who i can count on i hate liers cheater or steeler
i have hard time trusting people i dont know but once i do get to know them i start trusting them i want someone to trust and and fall in love i only say i love you only if i truly mean it i dont throw that word around like it some kind of junk i like to think of myself of colors of are each color differnt kinds of who i am but to see that you would have to see the hole pic not many can see it but it take time. i also for got to write that i have 7 tattoos .

I enjoy just about anything outdoors when its warm out(i hate cold wheather), i dont like being stuck in the same place for too long, i bust my a@! at work during the week, and like to go out occasionally, I love playin pool, like playing disk golf, hunting/fishing,poker, i listen to rock music and I love tattoos, I have a 2 year old son, hes is my world.

Are you ready for a man that is honest, sincere, trustworthy, faithful and will love you til death do us part. I am that man. I am revising my profile now because they all sound the same. I am unique from every other man out there. I know who I am and am confident that I am on the right path in life. I do not make alot of money, drive a fancy car or live in a fancy house. I have made alot of money at times in my career and found that it didn't make me happy. I work in a hospital and I witness the joy that the birth or beginning of life can bring and the sadness,anxiety and stress that illness and death can present upon patients and families. Working in this environment has made me a better person. I have an appreciation of each day that I am alive. I seek a soulmate that I can share the rest of my days with. I seek a wife, a lover and my best friend. I was married for 21 years and ended an 8 year relationship 6 months ago. The last relationship ended because she liked to drink ALOT, and I just couldn't live that way. We parted friends and have both moved on.

I am not a skinny man. I will probably never be skinny again. Just trying to be honest.

I am a former musician, so my musical taste is extremely broad. I like almost anything except rap.

I'm a 58 year old man thats' quiet and just looking for a friend or something more. I beat to my own drum. Have my own way of doing things. I'm extremely family oriented, I keep my friends close but my family closer. Extremely proud of my Native American heritage. Just talk to me and get to know me.

I grew up in Gulf Shores on a very small farm. I could ride my horse and then go for a swim in the Gulf in a few minutes. Love the water, animals, boats, outdoors activities, and traveling. I have been on missions trips to the Ukraine twice, Nigerauga in an orphanage, Helped clean up after Huricanes since I was 13 yrs, old. Been to Hawaii on vacation but always come back to sweet home Alabama.

feel free to ask me anything..i am better answering questions than just volunteering information..

My name is Wayne and I am 48 years old. I am a disabled man looking for someone special to spend my time with. I enjoy walks outside, watching movies, listening to music, cooking, and just spending quality time with my significant other. I have one small dog named Cuddles, so the right person must be comfortable with dogs.

Whats to say,most folkes on here give you some fake explination of themselves so all im gonna say is : im loyal,hardoworking,and above all things dont wanna play head games.Just be yourself if somone likes you they like if they dont they dont.Its gonna happen either way so why sweat the small stuff!

I am 21. Im pretty fun to be around i am shy especially at first. But when i get to know someone i get more open. I graduated high school i was in the military for a year. I love spending time with my family. I love kids but i cant have any my self i hope one day to adopt or if i am with someone long enough maybe they could have one. I like to party with my friends alot. Anything else just ask me.

So what do I like to do? I like to do a lot of things. I like watching and playing sports(mostly football). I like swimming, fishing, traveling, surfing the net, going to movies, going to the beach and hanging out with friends and family. I'm pretty close with my immediate family.

What am I looking for? I'm looking for a real woman. I want someone that's honest, caring, smart, outgoing, funny and loving. I don't think I missed anything. What I cannot stand is a liar, cheater and someone that likes to play mind games. Most of all I am looking for a friend in that person.

I am just a country girl who loves trying new things and being outside. I am not a big girly girl but I know when to be a lady. I love college football ROLL TIDE! I love to fish fresh water. Not real big on salt walter fishing. I was borned and raised in southern alabama and yes I still love it here!

Here are a list of words that can describe me the best: funny, cute, happy, smiley, silly, nice, energetic, fun, upbeat, positive, open-minded, witty, sarcastic, traditional, easy-going, crazy, friendly, explorer, attention, honest, , passionate, sensual, Sagittarius,working out, movies, music, travel, training,, ...... I am looking for a long-term relationship . I would like to meet someone to take care of each other, give each other attention, respect, love and passion. Someone that I can go out and do a lot of fun things together and share the joy with.

message me if you want to know more about me.

names mark taylor....... got it memorized ..............lol um im no good at these kinda things a lil about myself then lol im 5,11 i weigh 163 lbs i have hazel eyes with brown/black hair.............. im no where near attractive lol u can see my pic u know im not hot so yeah but if you do want a nice guy that wont hurt u in the end then hit me up

I am pretty laid back. I try not to let anything get to me and even when it does, usually no one realizes it. I can't stand drama or fake people.
I like being outdoors, especially during the winter months. I also like working out, playing tennis, golf, and love to travel. I am the mother of one, long story, but I love him more than I ever thought I could love another person. He will not be a factor until I see where whoever I am dating at the time and I might be headed. I hope you can understand that. I am an open and honest person who can be direct at times, which is something I really like about myself. I'm not sure what else to say, so if there is anything else you would like to know just ask.